“I've learned that: goodbyes will always hurt, pictures can never replace being there, memories forget times, words can never replace feelings!!!!!"
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Thats why my tears help me a lot... i vent all my anger.. my hurt... evrything out in those tiny tears... dat feeling is so differnt... when u r crying ur heart out... may b coz u have been hurt... its neither gud nor bad... bt its something u cant stop!... sometimes feel betr aftr those tears r all out... sometimes dey cant stop themselves... its miraculous how the heart connects and communicates to ur eyes and tells them... "u r hurt... cry out"!!!!
Being very emotional and empathetic i tend not to lose mch time to shed those tears... it can be coz of the feeling of pain (may be mine or someone i see in pain)... i feel it lik a sword... hurting me... n thn cant stop those mighty tears... sometimes there is no reason... yes!... there isint... i guess not many understand how it is to cry witot a reason... may be somethin within has felt pain... n u dont realise... may be the conscious u ... i read a very touching and true saying by osho... which signifies human emotions and turmoil of feeling the pain... it goes lik dis...
"This pain is not to make you sad, remember. That's where
people go on missing.... This pain is just to make you
more alert--because people become alert only when the arrow
goes deep into their heart and wounds them. Otherwise they
don't become alert. When life is easy, comfortable, convenient,
who cares? Who bothers to become alert? When a friend dies,
there is a possibility. When your woman leaves you alone--those
dark nights, you are lonely. You have loved that woman so much
and you have staked all, and then suddenly one day she is gone.
Crying in your loneliness, those are the occasions when,
if you use them, you can become aware.
The arrow is hurting: it can be used. The pain is not to make you miserable,
the pain is to make you more aware! And when you are aware, misery
disappears."- OSHO
