HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

Thanx Mum-Dad for bringing me into this beautifulllllllllll world!!!!

i could not think of a better start than dis for this beautiful life... i owe a lot to my parents... infact all of us do... :)

ive had an awesome bday this year... thanks a lotttttttttt to all those who remembered and wished me... it meant a lot... i made sure to cal bak all those whose calls i had missed... n reply to every single msg i got... incase i dint... m rly sorry... :( i left out unknown numbers... so hope no one close called from an unknown num... ;)

But trust me it rly means a lottt ... coz evn if its js one minute of ur 24 hrs dat u nid to msg or cal... wats imp is da effort dat counts... especially in dis busy-hectic world... whr no one has enuf time... i was really touched wit d num of cals n msgs... n aso wit near n dear ones comin at home...

i cant thank enough to a few special ppl hu made d arrangements- my sis (bhakti), my bro(abhishek) n spcl frn (shradha)... not to forget someone sendin me loads of love ... dats my swthrt... my shanu!!!- love u!

love u all sooooooo much!!!

Thanks Almighty!

Cry!

“I've learned that: goodbyes will always hurt, pictures can never replace being there, memories forget times, words can never replace feelings!!!!!"

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.

Thats why my tears help me a lot... i vent all my anger.. my hurt... evrything out in those tiny tears... dat feeling is so differnt... when u r crying ur heart out... may b coz u have been hurt... its neither gud nor bad... bt its something u cant stop!... sometimes feel betr aftr those tears r all out... sometimes dey cant stop themselves... its miraculous how the heart connects and communicates to ur eyes and tells them... "u r hurt... cry out"!!!!

Being very emotional and empathetic i tend not to lose mch time to shed those tears... it can be coz of the feeling of pain (may be mine or someone i see in pain)... i feel it lik a sword... hurting me... n thn cant stop those mighty tears... sometimes there is no reason... yes!... there isint... i guess not many understand how it is to cry witot a reason... may be somethin within has felt pain... n u dont realise... may be the conscious u ... i read a very touching and true saying by osho... which signifies human emotions and turmoil of feeling the pain... it goes lik dis...

"This pain is not to make you sad, remember. That's where
people go on missing.... This pain is just to make you
more alert--because people become alert only when the arrow
goes deep into their heart and wounds them. Otherwise they
don't become alert. When life is easy, comfortable, convenient,
who cares? Who bothers to become alert? When a friend dies,
there is a possibility. When your woman leaves you alone--those
dark nights, you are lonely. You have loved that woman so much
and you have staked all, and then suddenly one day she is gone.
Crying in your loneliness, those are the occasions when,
if you use them, you can become aware.
The arrow is hurting: it can be used. The pain is not to make you miserable,
the pain is to make you more aware! And when you are aware, misery
disappears."- OSHO

“The Beautiful thing about Learning is- nobody can take it away from u! “

A single conversation across the table with a wise man is worth a months study of books... have we actually understood the meaning of Knowledge.. we run thru our childhood filling the buckets of our brain.. Education is not filling a bucket but lighting a fire... How many of us have lit the fire??
The length of your education is less important than its breadth and the length of your life is less important than its depth.. i read a story recently of a learned sage.. not knowing whether it is important to be right and win the battle of ego.. or loose the war yet win the situation... I have attached a copy of this very inspiring story.. u can save and read it too...

We have to remember that the objective of education is to prepare the young to educate themselves throughout their lives... “The Beautiful thing about Learning is- nobody can take it away from u! "
Keep learning... gain knowledge.. ignite yourself with knowledge!

"Today is the first day of the rest of your life"

Being optimistic... beleieving in YOURSELF... having faith... strong faith... are some features i admire in People... It motivates me to meet personalities with a Positive Aura.. I see the difference... feel it... and now... wana pass on only this positivity.. :) to all..

“People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the first secret of success.”

I Believe I can fly... well not in actual... but yes!.. i do believe that i can fly... Touch the sky.. go high... meet my Life!!.. I can do it if i WANT to... if i bElIEvE i Can! what do people do when they feel low??? they pass it on.. to people they meet... i have made a conscious decision... not to! if i cant pass on a smile.. il try atleast not to pass on a nag.. ive recently learnt that there are enough reasons in life that you can be sad about... be grumbling and nagging... but remember... you have to Live as if your were to die tomorrow and Learn as if you were to live forever.

You can be someone who lights up a room with your enthusiasm, energy and encouragement, or you can be a person who makes the room a little brighter when you leave ... how you choose to live from this point on is entirely up to you!!

Tell me something that will inspire me.. tell me something that will make me :) .. Share something that has made you laugh... lets all have a pleasnat heart...

Pain is inevitable... Suffering is optional...l!!!

I believe... No one can promise they’ll never hurt you, because at one time or another they will. The real promise is if the time you spent together will be worth the pain in the end....
Well, we all have emotions and all have feelings.. no one is immune to them unless you are numb / not a human / u r a thing!!
You've never felt pain until you've felt love... or vice versa... These statements uplift me... coz in the end ... its a choice we all make... PAIN is inevitable... SUFFERING is optional...!!!!

WiSh ii NeVeR hAd To FoRgIvE

i so wish i never had to forgive... noo.. its not an easy task just to forget how badly you have been hurt o betrayed o LETDOWN... N JUST FORGIVE..

i learnt dis lesson of forgivin evry1 and evrythng at POTA... where my life changed and got a NEW begining... a real new start... its amazing how God plans it 4 us... js wen u think its al over n dis is THE end.. .. u see a new start....

though i say its not easy to forgive... i would definitely tel da joy u experience aftr u have LET GO... wOw!!!... as if ur heart is free of al the burden dat u kept piling... finally... ovr!!!

try it!!!... forgive sm1 cmpltly... absolutely.... however badly u r hurt.... n c da positive feeling in u... feel da pleasure... AMAZING!!! the grudge u kp inside does nothing but kps eating ur joy, ur hapines, ur positivity... no good 4u! so y kp it... forgive... FORGIVE... fOrGiVe!

i have tried it... n now i keep doing it... dats y i said dat da post on "letdowns" has inspired me soo mch... its amazing how u keep expecting... kp being letdown.... kp getting hurt... n kp forgivin!!!
baCk to square one... but wats most imp is... let it go... FORGIVE!!!!

first time...

someone once told me... THERE'S A FIRST TIME FOR EVERYTHING... it was wen i was dreadin to try my hand on smtn new. perhaps dis statement made me think... n i realizd ... thrs alwaz a 1st time... may b once u start u may nevr stop...

hope dats da case here too... thanx to Mr.Giri ;-).. dat i got introduced to dis.. n ofcrs wat inspired me is the write up by his Guruji abt "Letdown".. well thr has been loads o encouragement too...

i still look up to some more write ups, articles, blogs... hope they keep inspirin me...

As o now... dis is my FIRST TIME guys... wish me luck

Cheers!